Showing posts with label death. Show all posts
Showing posts with label death. Show all posts

Wednesday, December 03, 2008

Death - The Greatest Lesson of Life

The recent blasts brought back to me the fragility of the existence of man for who can deny -
'For Dust Thou Art, And Unto Dust Shalt Thou Return' - Old Testament, Genesis, III, 19.

Death – one of the harshest realities of life. Death acquits us of all of all obligations, all responsibilities, all debts, and all the moral duties that bind us. All human beings, ab initio, have feared death but have resigned to this truth without any resistance.

Who does not want to live long? When elders bless a youngster, they pray for wealth, success happiness but most of all, they pray for his long life; that his days may be countless as the stars in the sky or sands on the seashore. An old, aged man with one foot in the grave yearns for the return of many more of his birthdays. The most fundamental and arcane thing in life is man’s blind clinging to existence.

I remember a few lines from Omar Khayyam's Rubaiyat
Strange – is it not? – that of the myriads who
Before us passed the door of Darkness through
Not one returns to tell us of the road
Which to discover we must travel too.

How true these words are!! No one has returned from the Dead to apprise us about this reality of life. We don’t know whether life after death is abysmal or acme. We know absolutely nothing whatsoever about it and yet we fear it. That’s because man fears anything he does not understand or has no control over. Death is akin to the undiscovered country, from whose bourn no traveller returns.

The question that should arise in the minds of right thinking people is that whether we work to survive or survive to work. It is an acrid truth that man today has become more machine-like and less humane. He actively participates in the mad rat race to usurp more power and more money and the irony is that no matter who wins in the end, he is after all lowered to the level of a rat! He gets up early in the morning and returns late at night and the city acts on him like a juicer, squeezing all the life force out of him. Death is Nature’s way of asking Man to slow down. It is Nature’s way of accentuating the fact that no matter how much man progresses in his lifetime, he will always be quelled by Nature, ad infinitum.

Death is and will remain perhaps the greatest truth in life and the quicker man faces and comes to terms with it, the better it will be. Since life is a great surprise, death should be an even greater one. To die will be an awfully big adventure. The quote by Emily Dickinson sums up the concept of death:

Because I could not stop for Death-
He kindly stopped for me-

The carriage held but just Ourselves-

And Immortality.

Saturday, September 29, 2007

Explore! Dream! Discover! Now...

Was going through my blog after a very long time... not that I had stopped thinking of it but had got so involved in my work that this had taken a backseat - till someone I recently met spoke about his love for blogging and it kindled the old fire in me of expressing myself... and I guess that's why I'm at it again...

'Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.' - Mark Twain

The first thing, I read when I opened my blog page... This quote by Mark Twain just never ceases to speak to me... I am a person who lives for the moment, someone who has an unlimited source of enthusiasm... someone who is a free bird, soaring high up... I cringe when small kids call me 'Aunty'! Aunty makes me feel old, tired and chained...

Somewhere, I guess, all of us are scared of reaching a point in our lives when we will look back and regret not doing a number of things... Heck, I'm sure some of us already do that! I wish I could have gone for the camp to Rishikesh for white-water rafting; I wish I had told him I love him... I wish I had eaten that mango-flavoured ice-cream; I wish I had chased my dream; I wish...

I guess, somewhere we have to stop existing and start living. I have heard of this adage a number of times - Live like today's your last day on earth - and honestly that thought scares me. What would I do right now if I knew i was going to die by day end? Would I be with my family, tell them how much I love them and thank them for everything... would I go get the wackiest haircut that I secretely want but never had the guts to get it... would I have a complete wild time with my friends... would I take the first flight to Rishikesh and do that white-water rafting or eat the mango-flavoured ice-cream or tell him how much i love him?

There is so much that I want to do right now; if only I knew when my last breath would be...